Mum
One memory I will never forget is when Catherine and I visited mum’s school with her early last year. She had been absent from Baytree for a few months at that point and had just come in to sort out some paperwork, but you could tell she was excited because the real reason she wanted to go in was to see the students. We had only been there a couple of minutes and already pupils were coming out to see her with great big smiles on their faces and immediately began to fill her in on what had been happening since she had been there last. She couldn’t get a word in edgeways but she didn’t stop grinning the entire time. It was a bit of a surreal experience at first, seeing this other life my mum had teaching these people I’d never met, who seemed to know her so well - but seeing their faces when they came barrelling through the door to see her is something I will always remember. Realising how much of an impact she clearly had on them made me proud to have shared my mum with these phenomenal people.
Many of the Baytree staff will know just how hard she worked to improve the lives of every single student she taught. The countless Saturday nights she’d spent with her laptop out, watching casualty and making her own resources - never settling for anything less than perfect. She was so determined to give every student the best possible chance in life.
She was also the absolute definition of courteous. During her time at the hospice, even when speaking was becoming more strenuous than it once had been, ‘please’ and ‘thank you’ were always a firm part of her vocabulary.
But her defining trait was, without doubt, her infectious, ridiculous, incredible sense of humour. If I’d had a tough day she would instantly pick up on it and wouldn’t leave me alone until she’d forced a grin out of me. She would effortlessly be able to lift the mood in any situation, whether it be dressing up in my grandad’s clothes or singing and dancing in the car when son of a preacher man came on the radio.
Your infatuating humour, infinite wisdom and abundant kindness appealed to everyone and made you an inspiration to many, not least of all me. I can only aspire to be as considerate as you were, have such a positive influence on as many lives as you did, leave as extraordinary a legacy as you have.
I am so incredibly grateful to have known you for the time I did, I only wish we could have had longer together. But for the time we did share, and for the memories I will cherish every single day, thank you. It was an honour.
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